Looking for spiritual support during a difficult family situation
I’m currently facing a very challenging time and would appreciate any prayers. My youngest daughter Sarah, who is 20, attends a respected university on the east coast. She became pregnant by her boyfriend, only to find out later that he was unfaithful.
When she learned of her pregnancy at 10 weeks, she made the heartbreaking decision to end it. This has caused a significant rift in our family because I offered to support her in every possible way. I suggested she transfer to the local university in Texas, and I would reduce my work hours to help with childcare, allowing her to continue her studies. I even offered to adopt the baby if she felt unprepared to be a mother at this time.
She declined all my offers, expressing that she wants to remain at her current school and pursue a law degree afterward. She believes that having a baby would interfere with her future plans of working in a major city. Unfortunately, my husband and our older daughter Emma backed her decision and even took her back to school for the procedure.
This situation occurred back in January, and I’m still grappling with the aftermath. Our family once shared a strong set of values and faith, but now it feels like I’m the only one holding on to those beliefs. My other children often tell me I’m being overly controlling and stuck in the past.
What’s particularly painful is seeing my daughter post about her choice on social media as if she’s proud of it. She even attended protests and shared her experiences. When I attempt to comment, she deletes my messages or threatens to block me.
Now, my husband is considering divorce, claiming I’m not being supportive enough. I often reflect on how different our lives could have been. That baby would have been due around August, and we could have looked forward to our first Christmas together as an extended family.
I trust that God has a plan, but it’s difficult to see it right now. I would be truly grateful for any prayers for my family.